The internet has been buzzing with speculation and controversy following recent allegations made by American YouTuber Shelby Shubble, aka Shelby Graces, against her former partner, Wilbur Soot.
But what exactly went down between these two prominent creators? And has Wilbur responded to these allegations? Or has he decided to stay mum? It’s time to dive deep into this drama that has gripped the internet.
In a February 21, 2024, livestream titled “Talking about something more serious,” Shelby Shubble revealed her abusive relationship, strongly assumed to involve Wilbur Soot. Allegations of non-consensual biting prompted Shelby to establish a “safe word” that was allegedly often disregarded by her partner. Despite Wilbur’s apology on February 27, 2024, fans criticized his response, while Shelby rejected his perspective, expressing gratitude for the support.
What’s the Wilbur Soot and Shelby Shubble Drama? Is There Any Latest Update?
In a live stream on February 21, 2024, titled “Talking about something more serious,” Shelby Shubble opened up about her past relationship with an unnamed British partner.
While she didn’t initially disclose the identity, many assumed it to be Wilbur Soot. Shelby revealed disturbing details alleging physical abuse, including claims of non-consensual biting and living in unsanitary conditions.
In her stream, Shelby described a pattern of escalating abuse, stating, “His biting escalated to a point where I was covered in bruises all over my arms.”
She recounted instances where he would allegedly poke at the bruises for amusement and even show them off to friends. According to Shelby, the situation became so dire that she had to establish a “safe word” to signal when the biting crossed a boundary.
“He would even joke that it looked like he abused me,” Shelby shared. “And eventually, he did acknowledge how bad it looked… So, he stopped biting my arms as often and started biting my legs instead.”
In response to the allegations, Wilbur Soot issued an apology on February 27, 2024, acknowledging his past behavior.
He admitted to becoming “slobbish, disrespectful, and selfish” towards the end of their relationship. Regarding the biting, Wilbur claimed it was consensual and playful, but he expressed regret for causing pain.
Soot wrote:
“The allegation of abuse, particularly in the form of biting, deeply shocked me. Throughout our relationship, I understood from our numerous conversations and text message exchanges on the subject, that this behaviour was consensual, playful and reciprocally enjoyed.”
Wilbur further said:
“I truly believe those personal message exchanges reflect mutual affection and understanding. Out of respect for her, I choose not to publish them and I emphasise my perspective is not shared to diminish or invalidate anyone’s feelings. Instead I share it in the hope that I can offer a genuine, fair and relevant insight into my understanding of the situation.”
Despite his apology, fans remained divided. Many felt Wilbur’s response fell short, emphasizing the importance of respecting boundaries and withdrawing consent.
Clay, a prominent figure in the Minecraft community, criticized Wilbur’s handling of the situation, calling his actions “severely disappointing” and expressing support for Shelby’s bravery in speaking out. He said:
“She said she withdrew consent using a safe word and that you frequently would intentionally bite down harder afterward to the point that she would scream. Even isolated from everything else, that is clearly abuse.”
Shelby herself responded to Wilbur’s statement, expressing gratitude for her friends’ support and announcing a break from social media. She wrote on Twitter/ X:
“I could not have imagined what I would wake up to today. My ex pretending he thought I enjoyed being hurt… and all of my friends immediately coming to my defense. The support has brought me to tears. I don’t even know what to say. I’ll be back, I’ll just be taking a little time.”
She also clarified that she did not accept Wilbur’s version of events.
As public opinion continues to sway, one question remains: Where do we draw the line between playful banter and harmful behavior?
What do you think about this ongoing drama? Do you think Wilbur’s apology makes sense? Or are there half-truths and holes in Shelby’s story?
Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
